Have you ever heard for PUA? A pickup artist, commonly abbreviated PUA, in seduction community is a term used to describe a man who is or who at least strives to be skilled in meeting, attracting, and seducing women (See more: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pick_Up_Artist)

Four guys who bedded thousands of women, using their tried-and-trusted seduction techniques. They make their living (very good living!) tutoring single men in the art of becoming a PUA (Pick-up Artist)! In last five years PUA has been single men’s best-kept secret. But not anymore  

They knew that women would discover PUA, but they didn’t think it would happen so soon – said PUA Adam Lyons. “But the scene has grown so fast it’s an impossible secret to keep”- he continued… 

Five years girls! And he said “not so soon”! Where have we been all those five years? Have we been present in this world? 

Curing men’s loneliness is big business. The same is with curing women’s loneliness. A lot of web sites, tutorials coming up every day. 

I was always thinking:

• When you start to read those things, does it means that you are totally in a desperate phase?
• Does that make you more miserable?
• Who are those guys, women, self named guru’s all around the world who are teaching other guys/women how to get women/men in bed?
• Are they successful in their own lives (with women or men)?
• What background they have?
• What schools or universities they attended? J 
• Finally, how does it work or better
• Does it work?  

In one thing I am sure: Very soon, we will start to recognize in our lives those men/women who use those “100% successful techniques”. Women will use techniques from “women guru”, men will use techniques of “men guru” and it will be the start of one big mess…

Just imagine the situation between two people who were attended those lessons:

He thinks: “She is  touching  her hair during she is talking with me, its clear IOI (indication of interest)”

In the same moment, when woman do such a move, just because the hair was in her eye, for example, she will think:

”Oh, and now he thinks that I am interesting in him, but I am not… I have to take care not to do that…”

So, everybody will be occupied with “manuals” not with “What really going on here?” 

And all charm of those nice, stupid, funny things what happening between woman and man on first or second or third date will disappear. And those things are important, because when we made from our first date a relationship, one day we are going to talk about those “stupid” things and that will be fun and that is life and that is human behavior of two spontaneous persons! 

After all, if you don’t  feel the real energy with someone on your date, how that can become a relationship one day? Just because you were using those “techniques”, doesn’t mean that you will develop a relationship and that will be successful. You can get him or her in bed, but is it all what single people want? Maybe it is in those days… In that case, I probably missed some lessons in school…