Have you ever lost yourself on the road through life? Seeking for one thing, do we have to lose something else? Do we really have to pay the price if we follow our dreams, as Paulo Coelho says in the majority of his books? You may lose friends, favorite thing, loved one … Price range is huge. The highest price is when we lose ourselves on that road. When we forget who we are or who we were, what we want or what we wanted. Expectations are turning into the wrong assessment. “I want to” turns into “I have to”. Your integrity is demolishing from day to day and what is worst, it’s smashing by the wrong people. More than that, you do not recognize yourself any more and you are disgusting of what you’ve become. You lost your thoughts on that road, connection with yourself, your integrity, your soul.

How to find yourself again, because you feel like you are all the time in the roundabout and you don’t know which exit to choose? Where is the road to the lost enthusiasm that you had about your life? Do you have to go back from where you have started? At what intersection you’ve selected the wrong exit?

I do not know to show you the right road, because I don’t know where you want to go, but I can encourage you to think. Try to fix your thoughts, because they are certainly in chaos. Mind chaos, life chaos. Go back to your memories, remind yourself on the reasons why you were laughing to tears, remind yourself what gave you positive energy to go further, what you did and felt happy, think about what you dreamed about. Bring back your past, even if you have tried to forget it, because it was not so pleasant to you. But, in that past for sure were the moments when you enjoyed, when you loved yourself very much and were proud of yourself. Pull out the best of it!
 
It is never too late for the choices and decisions in life. Do not lose yourself, allowing other people to organize your life. You have one life and that one is unique. God did not give your life in other people’s hands. He gave it to you, to fulfill it, to live it on your way.

Do not allow to yourself that your “I want to” turns into “I have to”!