Divorce is difficult, not only because of legal and financial complications or sudden change in life. It is an emotional collapse, shock that you have turning of the road of conventional way of thinking and life. 

Founding a family is the most basic way for most of people to find sense of living. We all play roles: child, teenager, young married woman, mother, pensioner, grandmother. In each stage you know who you are and what is your role and responsibility. You have probably heard from a lot of people that their children are their highest achievement in life and success. They always can rely on that when they are in psychological crisis or when they have some doubts about their sense of living. They always can say in that moment: If nothing else, I raised my children in this life! 

But what happens when you step out from that traditional way of living? Are you going to lose your old place at the table in your family? And what if you don’t have children? Are the children the only measure of success for every woman? Are you become a black sheep in your family? Your friends suddenly not call you at some parties, because you are suddenly dangerous for their husbands? You disturb their balance of traditional perfection. That happens very often with friends, family members… In that case you need to find new friends, because those have never been your friends… You are facing with disappointments at every step. 

But, everyone has his own way and need to live his own life further on. Maybe your destiny is not perfect and you have never thought that can happen to you, but even that is better than to live a perfect imitation of someone else life, only because people around you think that is the only honest and decent way of living. You have to live YOUR life.

That “imperfection” of your life could help you to see the world totally from other perspective and to find your sense of living at a higher level.