Dani sent me a comment on the “Philosophy of change” story. Most of us don’t read comments on other people blogs and I was afraid that her post will be unnoticed. Her comment deserves to be a new article on this blog.

I want to say thank you to her on this way. Most of women will find a link with their own life in her comment. I believe, after you read her comment, in this case article, you will have a lot of things to think about… but what is more important: to do something!

So, here is the comment:

Hello, I like your text. It opens so many important issues of life. Many women sacrifice their lives for their children (or their parent or a husband, not necessarily a child).

Years pass by and children grow up and go away from their homes. Women stay with their husbands, in often, not so good relationships (marriages that were based on raising children). She is one unhappy person with empty life, sad and battered, has no friends, has bad communication with her husband, bad communication with her children, no story to tell, an adventure to remember, a secret that keeps her warm and makes her smile.

She gives bad example to her children (that life is all about sacrifice), instead to show to her children that in life everything is possible, dreams do come true, and that life should be lived till it’s full, and that the only thing we should be afraid is the fear itself.

And it is also important to say, that we can do the best we can for our children, for our parents etc. and they still end up hating us because of their own reason.

Or, we can do the best we can for ourselves, we can take risks, follow our dreams, try to overcome our fears, be happy and change for the better someone else’s life too.

So I put a thumb up for Ella and am looking forward for another chapter.