Let say you are building a house, or you are moving into a new apartment. You are completely occupied with all details and bills, during you are trying to equip your future nest.

Finally, you finished everything (if something like that is possible, because you always need something new…) and you are beginning to live in your space in which you have put so much effort and money of course. 

Are you able to recognize the moment when you begin to enjoy in that space? Do you allow yourself that moment? Do you let yourself to enjoy in your success? Do you recognize the moment in which that space is beginning to scent on you, your creams, perfumes, the food you cook? The moment when it becomes a part of you and you become a part of your own place? 

Many of us are not able to recognize these moments or they just « don’t have time ». We just continue with some projects in our daily life and forget to relax and enjoy what we have just completed. What a engine!

This is the best way to forget to appreciate ourselves, because we didn’t aware the moment of our success. We didn’t allow it to become a part of us. We didn’t live through it. Therefore, we neither felt it, nor connected with us. Through time, all you do becomes simply “normal” to you and you start to believe that those kinds of things belongs to you by some “law of nature” or “It just happened”. 

Go back, as soon as possible! Stop! Turn around you! Inhale and feel your energy in everything around you, become aware of everything you do and enjoy in those moments even for a minute. Be proud of yourself and allow yourself to focus on how great you really are, because it is your merit, not the merit of some “law of nature”.